TNBC Day

March 3rd is Triple Negative Breast Cancer Day!

TNBC Day

The global movement to raise awareness of triple negative breast cancer is near and dear to me, as this is the type of breast cancer that I faced in November 2010, just days after learning I was pregnant. Prior to my diagnosis, I knew nothing about this disease. I had no idea that despite having no family history, this aggressive type of breast cancer disproportionately affects younger women, as well as those of African, Latina, Caribbean descent and those with BRCA mutations.

As a 2015 TNBC Day Champion, I’ve also chosen to do something positive about triple negative breast cancer. Join me in supporting TNBC Day!

The Power of Social Media

This Facebook post helped save my life.

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During Breast Cancer Awareness Month in 2010, my sorority sister, Laura Figueroa, was posting messages like this one to her Facebook page daily in an attempt to reach her goal of raising $1,000 to benefit Susan G. Komen’s Miami/Fort Lauderdale Affiliate. I had never donated to a breast cancer organization before and didn’t personally know anyone directly impacted by the disease.  But I made a donation that week to support my fellow LTA sister and Florida Gators J-School alumna.

It was during that same week that I discovered a lump in my breast one evening as I was changing my sports bra after a workout. At age 30 and with no family history of breast cancer, mammograms were not even on my radar, nor was breast cancer. I often think of how I could have easily overlooked that lump as a serious symptom had it not been for this Facebook post and the subsequent email that I received from Komen after making a donation.

Because of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I made an appointment with my primary physician. At that appointment, I learned I was pregnant. About a week later, after a breast ultrasound and biopsy, I received the call that would change my life: It’s breast cancer.

Ironically, Facebook is also the platform that I used to break the news of my diagnosis to the majority of my family, friends and colleagues.

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Read my interview with the Today Show on how I used social media to break the news of my diagnosis.

After my diagnosis, I used a private Facebook group to keep my closest family and friends updated on my treatment and journey. Still, I didn’t know a single person who had breast cancer, much less a survivor who had battled the disease while pregnant.

One night, after my medical team and I had determined the best course of treatment would be to undergo chemotherapy as soon as I entered my second trimester, I sent a tweet out to the Twitterverse: I am pregnant with breast cancer and I am scared. I didn’t expect a response; I simply wanted to vent. But I received a response from a woman in Indiana who had battled breast cancer while pregnant several years prior. That was the beginning of a friendship that would blossom over 2 years before Heidi and I met in person when I was honored as a Pink Power Mom.

It was soon after that connection that I found my way to a breast cancer chat on Twitter that is actually bigger than a mere hashtag: #bcsm. Short for Breast Cancer Social Media, the #bcsm chat is an online network of breast cancer patients, caregivers, physicians and advocates. I tuned in to the #bcsm chat weekly and tapped into the knowledge of women who had navigated through a similar journey. It was through this chat where I first learned about metastatic breast cancer and survivorship issues.

Using the #bcsm hashtag, I’ve connected with other TNBC survivors and women like myself that faced a diagnosis at a younger age. Through Twitter, I have been able to connect with a handful of other women who battled breast cancer while pregnant and have also helped to support newly diagnosed women. I prefer this social media platform to keep updated with the latest research and news related to breast cancer.

Social media has served as a powerful tool in my journey with breast cancer. Not only has it served as a news source, but social media has connected me with some amazing people and provided access to medical experts and answers to many health-related questions. Social media has been my lifeline on days that I just need to vent about the disease and life in general. The connections and knowledge that I’ve gained from social media networks have empowered me to become a better, more educated advocate for my own health and for others.

LBBC Conference – Shared Experiences

Living Beyond Breast Cancer (LBBC) recently held its Annual Fall Conference in Philadelphia. Thanks to a travel grant from event sponsors, I was able to attend the conference themed “Breast Cancer Today: Individual Treatments, Shared Experiences.” I was also asked to share my own experience on a Triple Negative Breast Cancer discussion panel.

The thing I enjoy most about attending breast cancer conferences is the opportunity to connect with others who share the experience of coping with the disease. This year’s LBBC Fall Conference was certainly no different. However, as I near my 4-year canceversary, I felt very different.

I attended my very first breast cancer conference (C4YW) as a 9-month survivor still undergoing reconstruction. I remember that conference being the first time I connected with other survivors like myself. I remember being surrounded by nearly 1,000 survivor sisters who understood what it was like to fight breast cancer. When they shared their experiences, I felt like they were living my life. I remember seeking out those 5+ year survivors. I wanted dearly to know they existed. I wanted proof that there was life after breast cancer. At that conference, I found hope.

Since that conference, I have attended several others and have made many lifelong connections along the way. So when I arrived in Philadelphia for the weekend, I found many familiar faces in the crowd. For some of us, we picked up right where we left off. For others, we were finally able to put a real face and a real hug to a Twitter handle or Instagram avatar. And for many others, we formed a new unbreakable bond.

As I sat on the TNBC discussion panel and looked around the room, I saw so many faces. Some scared, some filled with worry but also many smiles. As the panelists openly discussed our individual experiences with breast cancer, we drew many comments, questions and thanks from the crowd. It was on that panel that I realized what was different this time. I was now sitting where so many of these women battling this disease aspire to be — on the other side of treatment.

Coming up on my 4-year mark, I was proof that there is life after breast cancer. At this conference, I was hope.

To watch some of the recorded conference sessions, visit LBBC’s YouTube channel.

Faces of Courage

Faces-of-Inspiration BookEarlier this year, I was invited to share my story as part of a collection of breast cancer survivor stories for a book. Each contributor was asked to include a quote along with their story. Here is an excerpt from my submission:

“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.” Nelson Mandela

Courage is a word that often gets thrown around when you mention breast cancer. It may seem ironic for those newly diagnosed because we often feel scared and anything but brave. However, it takes an immense amount of courage to face a fear of the unknown.

Through breast cancer, I learned that courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes, simply living, holding onto faith and doing what we may be afraid to do takes courage. Fighting breast cancer often means doing whatever it takes to overcome the disease. Although we may not always feel strong, we face the pain, grief and loss associated with breast cancer head on. That, my friend, is courage.

Faces of Inspi­ra­tion is a col­lec­tion of breast can­cer sto­ries shared from the hearts of the newly diag­nosed, sur­vivors and care­givers. This books speaks to the breast care com­mu­nity in a unique way – one that seeks to not only inspire, but to offer hope from a place of real­ness and sin­cer­ity. The sto­ries shared in this book are trans­par­ent and con­vey the impor­tance and power of inspi­ra­tional words from one heart to another. Order online.

Hope Grows Here

Moments before being honored with the Courage Award at the Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation Peace, Love & A Cure 2014 gala, I watched as the following video commemorated the theme of the night, Hope Grows Here.

As I heard my own words and saw my daughter’s face on screen, I couldn’t help but fight back tears. I wasn’t immediately sure how I could possibly share my story of hope with dry eyes. But I got myself together and did. After all, I was receiving the Courage Award!

While I shared insight into my battle against triple negative breast cancer while pregnant, I looked around to see that there weren’t many dry eyes in the audience. Like mine, they were tears of joy. I was there to give hope to others, just as I had drawn hope through my journey from fellow survivors, many of whom I connected with through the Foundation’s online forum and social media networks.

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Pictured: Milli Rodriguez (left) and Roxanne Martinez (right) at Peace, Love & A Cure.

It was truly a blessing to be among this year’s Peace, Love & A Cure honorees, along with Celgene Corporation and Dr. Tiffany Traina of Memorial Sloan‑Kettering Cancer Center, and to share this special evening with friends, TNBC supporters and survivors.

Thank you to the Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation and its supporters for raising awareness, funding research in pursuit of a targeted treatment for this disease and for supporting patients and families affected by triple negative breast cancer. The organization’s endless efforts to find a cure gives hope to so many, including myself. To learn more, visit www.tnbcfoundation.org.